Often times getting married ends up representing a lot more in your life than just you and the person you’re marrying. You start to re-evaulate friendships and all of the relationships in your life. You realize some are more meaningful than you thought and some are different than you thought. For me, both of these situations happened for me.
The first time I saw the property of where we were getting married, I saw this dirt patch overlooking a beautiful view of mountains and a vineyard, and I thought I wish could have a 30 person wedding so I could get married here. The view is EPIC.